Tag Archive | manipulation

What NOT To Do When Trying To Lose Your Narc: Warn His Newest Victim(s)

Now, I will preface this by saying that I wouldn’t have made this mistake if the marriage counsellor my husband and I were seeing at the time hadn’t convinced me that it was my “moral obligation” to do it. (This goes to show that sometimes a Ph.D. really IS a piece of paper and thou […]

Reblog from alexandranouri.com: Freedom Means Doing a Hard Thing

I reblog a lot of things from Aunt Alex – and I’ve got to credit her for a lot of my own emotional healing (which is still a work in progress, of course). She’s a blunt, take-no-prisoners, kind of a gal, and I love her. If you haven’t checked out her blog and her ebooks […]

“Lying is how assholes get sex.” The Salty Droid

I just about sharted when I read the first paragraph of this one. Well said, Salty Droid, well said! http://saltydroid.info/dr-leonard-coldwells-handson-healing/

No

I do not accept your abuse. No, I do not deserve it. I do not buy your backhanded apologies, non-apologies, really. No, I’m smart enough to know the difference between the crap you are trying to dish out and a real apology. I will never accept future exploitation by you. The only reason you exploited […]

Relationship Math 101: You ARE Part of the Equation

Those of us with histories of dysfunctional relationships really suck at math. Oh, I know, some of you will protest. You’re smart, geniuses in some cases. Some of you may have advanced degrees, even in professions that require a solid handle on mathematics. I get that. But when it comes to applying some principles of […]

FLEAS – Bad Behavior Patterns and Habits Picked Up from Living or Dealing with a Narcissist

Originally posted on Joyful Alive Woman:
The definition of FLEAS: Maladaptive Behaviors as a Result of Narcissistic Abuse. Excellent essay, re-posted here, from Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers: “FLEAS, FLEAS, FLEAS! From time to time around Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers, you’ll hear people mention FLEAS. If you’ve never heard of them, here’s the explanation of what…

20 Traits of the Malignant Narcissist

Originally posted on KinkyLittleGirl – On Abuse and BDSM:
Oh, how much of this rings true!  I don’t know the original source of this, but it’s brilliant.   Learning about malignant narcissism helped me probably more than anything other than what I learned about sex addiction to understand what happened and how I got caught…

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