Tag Archive | lies

What NOT To Do When Trying To Lose Your Narc: Warn His Newest Victim(s)

Now, I will preface this by saying that I wouldn’t have made this mistake if the marriage counsellor my husband and I were seeing at the time hadn’t convinced me that it was my “moral obligation” to do it. (This goes to show that sometimes a Ph.D. really IS a piece of paper and thou […]

Reblog from alexandranouri.com: Freedom Means Doing a Hard Thing

I reblog a lot of things from Aunt Alex – and I’ve got to credit her for a lot of my own emotional healing (which is still a work in progress, of course). She’s a blunt, take-no-prisoners, kind of a gal, and I love her. If you haven’t checked out her blog and her ebooks […]

What Was His Name, Again?

Holy shit… I couldn’t believe it. For a long while tonight I could not remember my first psychopath’s last name. He came into my life six and a half years ago, and tore it apart. The world does not know this (not much of the world, anyway), but I do. I went No Contact just […]

No

I do not accept your abuse. No, I do not deserve it. I do not buy your backhanded apologies, non-apologies, really. No, I’m smart enough to know the difference between the crap you are trying to dish out and a real apology. I will never accept future exploitation by you. The only reason you exploited […]

FLEAS – Bad Behavior Patterns and Habits Picked Up from Living or Dealing with a Narcissist

Originally posted on Joyful Alive Woman:
The definition of FLEAS: Maladaptive Behaviors as a Result of Narcissistic Abuse. Excellent essay, re-posted here, from Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers: “FLEAS, FLEAS, FLEAS! From time to time around Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers, you’ll hear people mention FLEAS. If you’ve never heard of them, here’s the explanation of what…

20 Traits of the Malignant Narcissist

Originally posted on KinkyLittleGirl – On Abuse and BDSM:
Oh, how much of this rings true!  I don’t know the original source of this, but it’s brilliant.   Learning about malignant narcissism helped me probably more than anything other than what I learned about sex addiction to understand what happened and how I got caught…

Nature Abhors A Vacuum, Part I: Beware What You Long For

What is the thing you most want right now that you do not have? That, my friend, is probably your greatest vulnerability. The more desperation you have for what you want, the more likely other people will exploit that emptiness in your life to fulfill their own desires. It’s kind of like a predator targeting the very […]

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