I didn’t realize I had started a whole series of these “Enabler” installments on the old blog, so I thought, what the heck. All in one place.
Two and a half years into No Contact, because of my family ties to Psycho #2, the Enabler thing continues to be a problem. And unfortunately, my husband is still sitting on the fence. (Our therapist gets it, that this fence-sitting, in general, not just specific to this issue, is HUGELY problematic to our relationship.) Sigh. I know our marriage is in serious, serious trouble, and though this “psycho cousin” thing is not THE major issue going on, it is not helping and may prove to be just another nail in the coffin of “us”.