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20 Traits of the Malignant Narcissist

I love this post, definitely worth reblogging!

KinkyLittleGirl - On Abuse and BDSM

Oh, how much of this rings true!  I don’t know the original source of this, but it’s brilliant.  
Learning about malignant narcissism helped me probably more than anything other than what I learned about sex addiction to understand what happened and how I got caught in the snare of an abuser again after so long successfully spotting and avoiding them.  When you realize how much the deck was stacked against you from the start, you can stop blaming yourself for the things that were never your responsibility to start with, and wouldn’t have made a difference anyways even if you had done them differently.
Interesting that it starts out with lying and ends with penitence,  since whopping and verifiable lies bracketed both the beginning and end of the relationship, the starter one being something he tearfully confessed as having been done to try to protect me, one of the

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One comment on “20 Traits of the Malignant Narcissist

  1. my husband and i are not able to comprehend what we will never understand or for that matter nobody can believe what has taken place in our family..parents abandoned by adult children son/daughter grandchildren and will not give us any answer as to WHY…they will not let us speak the truth because this type of punishment makes no since at all. It is based on lies false statements and unthinkable ways to ruin our character and our lives. I cannot imagine having no feelings, no empathy for what is beyond dehumanizing and cruel. There were years during our family life with the children that centered around love and making them the center of our family lives. they responded with much love, appreciation, that made our relationship with them feel so close, special, full of love fun and sharing the stressful times with tears and supporting one another.like loving children and parents do. however, now we are left empty and confused heartbroken causing depression and is destroying our value of life and our reason for living was based on our close family ties..this is the silent treatment and without giving any reason. just rage,hate, anger, name calling, blaming me /mom for things i never said,actions that never happened, yet blaming me and projecting things that they actually said and did to me by twisting truths,and i feel that they may believe their own lies. however, they have stopped all forms of communication we cannot even have the pleasure of sending gifts to our grandchildren. if they allowed us to speak the truth which they refuse to listen to, we could perhaps open up some start to a reconciliation process. they know that means facing the issue they have and they cannot face the truth nor do they want to . some of the false statements never ever took place. if my husband had not been with me at the time, i would ? my mental status. they refuse to listen to one word spoken that is the God’s honest truth.
    This has totally destroyed us and stress beyond what we can handle. we love them so much we have no idea what is happening my son is arrogant and cold and he and his sister never had a close relationship they were 8 years apart in age. She seemed to be in some sort of competition where there was actually none. she has all the symptoms of being a malignant narcissist and has convinced her brother to believe her false stories-i cannot begin to imagine what she is capable of doing. she will do whatever it takes to remove him from us. this is a nightmare we cannot wake up from. if only we could make some since of reality with them, it is impossible and this has gone on for a few years now.
    we pray daily for peace and direction from Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ we pray most of all for love, love is the greatest gift of all and they seem to not even like themselves. thank you for giving me a way to vent as i have lost 30lbs over this and my husband is disabled and seriously ill. they do not want to hear about anything going on with us. I feel sick just typing this unthinkable and horror of disbelief that my husband and i share..we would never ever or could begin to imagine that we would not even exist to them. I don’t know if i can handle another day wasted for what reason?Time is not on our side. and i cannot get up everyday and night crying.because we don’t know them anymore. we love one another–This is rage anger lies hate and i knew i would never have to say this, but we believe they are capable of anything to keep the truth from ever being spoken…

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